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FlameRush
03-05-2003, 11:15 PM
If anyone could help me, its about a girl and me, read on.
This isnt porn.


Theres this girl that I went to school, and she liked me, this boy told her that I wanted to make out with her in 4th grade, I dont know what the hell to say for her to forgive me, cause when that boy said that the girl hated me and cussed me out that day.
I liked her because she was pretty, smart, nice, and cool.
But I want to send her a letter, I dont know what to say.
But the day that boy said that, I asked her why she told me to shut the f*** up, she brung me to an empty spot in the play ground and said what that boy said, and thought I was lying, so then told me she hate my guts, so help me.

FlameRush
03-05-2003, 11:15 PM
If anyone could help me, its about a girl and me, read on.
This isnt porn.


Theres this girl that I went to school, and she liked me, this boy told her that I wanted to make out with her in 4th grade, I dont know what the hell to say for her to forgive me, cause when that boy said that the girl hated me and cussed me out that day.
I liked her because she was pretty, smart, nice, and cool.
But I want to send her a letter, I dont know what to say.
But the day that boy said that, I asked her why she told me to shut the f*** up, she brung me to an empty spot in the play ground and said what that boy said, and thought I was lying, so then told me she hate my guts, so help me.

FlameRush
03-05-2003, 11:15 PM
If anyone could help me, its about a girl and me, read on.
This isnt porn.


Theres this girl that I went to school, and she liked me, this boy told her that I wanted to make out with her in 4th grade, I dont know what the hell to say for her to forgive me, cause when that boy said that the girl hated me and cussed me out that day.
I liked her because she was pretty, smart, nice, and cool.
But I want to send her a letter, I dont know what to say.
But the day that boy said that, I asked her why she told me to shut the f*** up, she brung me to an empty spot in the play ground and said what that boy said, and thought I was lying, so then told me she hate my guts, so help me.

OUTLAWS WHOCARES
03-05-2003, 11:19 PM
If it was me man I would make that kid explain that is was a bunch of BS whether you said it or not.
Flowers will help as well.
Good Luck to ya.
I am not too sure of your age but I think you are a youngin.
I will explain this to you now and maybe you will understand it in a few years.
YOU WILL NEVER EVER UNDERSTAND WHAT WOMEN WANT!!

OUTLAWS WHOCARES
03-05-2003, 11:19 PM
If it was me man I would make that kid explain that is was a bunch of BS whether you said it or not.
Flowers will help as well.
Good Luck to ya.
I am not too sure of your age but I think you are a youngin.
I will explain this to you now and maybe you will understand it in a few years.
YOU WILL NEVER EVER UNDERSTAND WHAT WOMEN WANT!!

FlameRush
03-05-2003, 11:25 PM
How do I send A flower in mail to give one of my trusted friends to give to that girl without getting it screwed up??
Ohwell, I want to send a letter, and tell her to call me, so I could explain all it, oh I got suspended from school for 1 day, cause hit that boy hard.
That girl told me she would believe me, but I have lied to the teacher plenty of times, If someone could tell me what to write to her to call me, so I could tell her that, I tryed and tryed to tell her at school, now I'm homeschooled.

FlameRush
03-05-2003, 11:25 PM
How do I send A flower in mail to give one of my trusted friends to give to that girl without getting it screwed up??
Ohwell, I want to send a letter, and tell her to call me, so I could explain all it, oh I got suspended from school for 1 day, cause hit that boy hard.
That girl told me she would believe me, but I have lied to the teacher plenty of times, If someone could tell me what to write to her to call me, so I could tell her that, I tryed and tryed to tell her at school, now I'm homeschooled.

OUTLAWS WHOCARES
03-05-2003, 11:33 PM
All I can say is talk from the heart my friend.
Be honest. Tell her what happened.
Again be Honest.
Why don't you post what you want to write to her

OUTLAWS WHOCARES
03-05-2003, 11:33 PM
All I can say is talk from the heart my friend.
Be honest. Tell her what happened.
Again be Honest.
Why don't you post what you want to write to her

FlameRush
03-05-2003, 11:40 PM
Hey Karol, this is Damien, I was the person you got mad at in 4th grade, and in 5th grade at Sandy Ridge Elementary, I wanted to explain something to you, if you could please call my number ***-****, I would be happy, a direct time to call if around 6 PM-10 PM, cause thats when I play games on the computer, and talk to friends.
What I was going to explain to you about is what happend in 4th grade, when you got mad at me.



Hows that sound anyone??

FlameRush
03-05-2003, 11:40 PM
Hey Karol, this is Damien, I was the person you got mad at in 4th grade, and in 5th grade at Sandy Ridge Elementary, I wanted to explain something to you, if you could please call my number ***-****, I would be happy, a direct time to call if around 6 PM-10 PM, cause thats when I play games on the computer, and talk to friends.
What I was going to explain to you about is what happend in 4th grade, when you got mad at me.



Hows that sound anyone??

OUTLAWS WHOCARES
03-05-2003, 11:44 PM
When was the last time you spoke to her?

OUTLAWS WHOCARES
03-05-2003, 11:44 PM
When was the last time you spoke to her?

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 12:28 AM
June, or July last year, I'm sure she would remember.

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 12:28 AM
June, or July last year, I'm sure she would remember.

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 12:38 AM
Well, is my lil letter I had up on A lil, good??

Snip3r
03-06-2003, 01:06 AM
:thumbs:

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 01:28 AM
Anyone else??

Herbus Maximus
03-06-2003, 02:08 AM
And now some WORDS of WISDOM from Dr. Herbus...

I think your note is fine :thumbs: Keep it short and to the point and let her know that you don't want her mad at ya' and would like to have the opportunity to tell what really happened. I think it would be better iffin' you could send it yourself, just cause some people always gotta' stick their nose or opinions where it don't belong.
And I have to agree with WHOCARES.....Always be honest with yourself and to others about your feelings. Even if your afraid someone will laugh...or might not feel the same...it's gonna' be better for you not to keep your feelings inside where they can fester. :bawling: :bandhead:
I'll tell you what though,
I give you a big :thumbs: for still caring about this girls feelings for you a year later. Most kids would just right it off and say so forkin' what!
If she means that much to you...Tell her how you feel. Be honest and respect her and speak from the heart. People will respect you for it and you can feel good about yourself cause you are being ...yourself.


AWWWWWWWWWWW!!! Can I get a group hug people!! AWWWWWWWWWWWW!!

.

OUTLAWS high ping camper
03-06-2003, 04:27 AM
Well said Herbus.
You've left me speechless.

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 05:03 AM
BRB
I wrote one to make one whole page.

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 05:24 AM
Here it is.


Hey Karol, this is Damien from Sandy Ridge Elementary, you might still be mad at me from the 4th grade what that boy said, but I needed to ask one or more questions about that time, if I made you mad to think about that, please can we maybe talk about it for awhile, and here the truth, it may seem wierd I ask you this now, but anyway, if you have a email, could you please email dethcall74@yahoo.com, but if you aintgot an email, but internet you could sign up free, if you aint got internet, will you please call ***-***.

If you wanna know what I think of you, Honestly, four tings,
1. Your Pretty.
2. Your cool
3. Your smart, lastly
4. Your nice.

Hows that sound folks.
I ended the letter there, I would mail it to her, but I aint got her adress LOL, I asked her, she said tomarrow, then in a minute, just came with excuses, but this is wierd, I never had a GF.
I only knew her a year.
I like her like BF/GF.

OPTIMOOSE
03-06-2003, 05:46 AM
Too pushy... just start off slow..

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 05:52 AM
Reread it now.

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 06:35 AM
Better yet, I will stay up, and tell my friend at the time to get ready for school on, to write a note and give give it to her, then she calls me, and I could talk.

BOSTON SHOCKER
03-06-2003, 07:22 AM
listen to the shocker


i know all about this stuff


on well just get in contact with her first then talk to her like you would anyone else then say look i really feel bad about something that happend when we where younger i was a kid and there was alot of confusion and i just wanted to tell u i was sorry then blah blah blah blah blah oh ya ?? oh maybe will have to go out for coffie some time its been awhlie since i have seen you ok well ill give you a call bye





lol thats how i would do it :wootrock:

Ra\/en
03-06-2003, 07:43 AM
haha hes in grade 6.

but im inclined to agree with you though, because honestly im not sure if it was such a big deal mabye.

im sure she has gotten over it if she was mad before. :cool:

just make your move. hehe

BOSTON SHOCKER
03-06-2003, 07:55 AM
grade 6 ????????????????????????????????????????????????

lol

ohh ok for that wait you dont need a g/f in grade 6 just become really close buds then when she grows up to be hot youll be the first guy in line

Ra\/en
03-06-2003, 07:56 AM
yeah you know it! :jammin:

Aries
03-06-2003, 01:11 PM
Originally posted by WHOCARES@Mar 5 2003, 11:19 PM
.
YOU WILL NEVER EVER UNDERSTAND WHAT WOMEN WANT!!
WORD :jammin:

Sepra
03-06-2003, 03:37 PM
Originally posted by VS BloodScream@Mar 5 2003, 06:40 PM
Hey Karol, this is Damien, I was the person you got mad at in 4th grade, and in 5th grade at Sandy Ridge Elementary, I wanted to explain something to you, if you could please call my number ***-****, I would be happy, a direct time to call if around 6 PM-10 PM, cause thats when I play games on the computer, and talk to friends.
What I was going to explain to you about is what happend in 4th grade, when you got mad at me.



Hows that sound anyone??
OK here's the opinion from that strange species called 'women'...........


Go with this one. I agree that the second one is a little too foward. If you say as little as possible it might spark her curiosity a little more and she'll want to call you. The same thing goes if you ever get that phone call. Dont smother her right away she'll think your psyco. Apologize and just tell her it's been something that has been bothering you all this time. (she'll think that's sweet) Tell her you think she's really cool but like I said dont get too mushy right away. Just leave it at that. Talk to her like you would any other friend of yours and end the conversation ask if it's ok if you call her again.

Oh and take Herbus's advice........(that was incredible Herb)

I like what Boston Shocker said also. Try not to be to pushy. Take it slowly and be her friend first. :thumbs: Who know's after a few months of friendship...........she may like you as her b/f.

Pure_Evil
03-06-2003, 03:52 PM
Sepra's advice is good. I always believe in being straight forward, what do you have to lose, sounds like if she shoots you down, her loss! N/K

Mr Clean
03-06-2003, 04:03 PM
Originally posted by OUTLAWS high ping camper@Mar 5 2003, 10:27 PM
Well said Herbus.
You've left me speechless.
:blink: Can a brother get an AMEN!... :P

Mr Clean
03-06-2003, 04:12 PM
Originally posted by VS BloodScream@Mar 5 2003, 05:15 PM
If anyone could help me, its about a girl and me, read on.
This isnt porn.


Theres this girl that I went to school, and she liked me, this boy told her that I wanted to make out with her in 4th grade, I dont know what the hell to say for her to forgive me, cause when that boy said that the girl hated me and cussed me out that day.
I liked her because she was pretty, smart, nice, and cool.
But I want to send her a letter, I dont know what to say.
But the day that boy said that, I asked her why she told me to shut the f*** up, she brung me to an empty spot in the play ground and said what that boy said, and thought I was lying, so then told me she hate my guts, so help me.
I hate to disagree with everyone, but I wouldn't touch this gal with a 20 foot pole. You said in your other thread she is still mad over a year after this initial thing happened? She isn't worth your time. Here's how I read this:

Your a good guy, you feel bad about it EVEN THOUGH it wasn't your fault and you did nothing wrong. That says a lot about your character, and you've tried to apologize and make nice with her and she called you a liar. There are 120 million women in America (not all in the sixth grade of course), I gaurantee you there are plenty of them that are better than her. She made a judgement about your character based on what someone else said, so in my opinion she isn't worthy of you.

And another thing, if your "friend" really did tell her that, then he lied to her about you, probably because he likes her too and made you look bad in her eyes so there would be less competition for himself. I'm not sure I'd trust that guy either.

You seem like a cool dude, I'd blow these meatheads off and find some better people to hang with.

Death-Dude
03-06-2003, 04:14 PM
I agree with most of what these guys said. Always take the high road, try to imagine what she's feeling, and just be honest, with no expectations. She may accept it, she may not, but in the end you'll be able to hold your head high that you did your best to do the right thing. Knowing that you acted with honor is more important than her opinion of you, or anyone else's.

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 05:18 PM
It sounds so ****ing wierd now, but I wanted to tell her that day, but she said I was lying, and I wanted to ask question bout my riend to give it to her, and see if this person that was my best friend since Kindergarden is there.

All it is, shes one person I trust most, cause she hasnt lied to me once, and I would check to see if right, but I trust not because shes a girl, a girl stole $24.76 out my desk, for a bookfare.


Anyway, I feel for others, I wanna be nice, I remember bad stuff in 4th grade, one boy ran into my foot while I was swinging, I went to see if he was alright, I ran to the teacher, and when they brung him up there, I confessed to kicking him while swinging, he said he ran into the pole, if he did, he ran into it like a ferrari at full speed, cause those were big poles.

If I killed someone I would confess, I'm not like the retards out there that break the law, and dont tell, cause you hide something from someone, the longer, they get madder, I know.

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 05:25 PM
Originally posted by Mr Clean@Mar 6 2003, 04:12 PM
And another thing, if your "friend" really did tell her that, then he lied to her about you, probably because he likes her too and made you look bad in her eyes so there would be less competition for himself. I'm not sure I'd trust that guy either.

You seem like a cool dude, I'd blow these meatheads off and find some better people to hang with.
No he is a lil bitching ******, I know, cause he asked a boy out, and he got beat up.
And he aiont my friend.

Mr Clean
03-06-2003, 05:26 PM
Originally posted by VS BloodScream+Mar 6 2003, 11:25 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (VS BloodScream @ Mar 6 2003, 11:25 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--Mr Clean@Mar 6 2003, 04:12 PM
And another thing, if your "friend" really did tell her that, then he lied to her about you, probably because he likes her too and made you look bad in her eyes so there would be less competition for himself.* I&#39;m not sure I&#39;d trust that guy either.

You seem like a cool dude, I&#39;d blow these meatheads off and find some better people to hang with.
No he is a lil bitching ******, I know, cause he asked a boy out, and he got beat up.
And he aiont my friend. [/b][/quote]
Well, sorry to hear that, but at least you know enough not to trust him anymore...

And he was eliminating competition....he didn&#39;t want her interested in you.... :blink:

:cool:

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 05:28 PM
My cat ate her phone number.

Mr Clean
03-06-2003, 05:31 PM
Originally posted by VS BloodScream@Mar 6 2003, 11:28 AM
My cat ate her phone number.
:lol:
Ain&#39;t that the way it goes....

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 05:45 PM
No really, it smelled like pizza, cause I dropped my pizza on it.

Sepra
03-06-2003, 06:14 PM
Hehe VS your a cute kid&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33; :thumbs: Damn.....if I were in the 6th grade&#33;&#33;&#33;

Casanova
03-06-2003, 07:25 PM
Originally posted by WHOCARES@Mar 6 2003, 01:19 AM
YOU WILL NEVER EVER UNDERSTAND WHAT WOMEN WANT&#33;&#33;
:D :P

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 08:03 PM
Originally posted by Sepra@Mar 6 2003, 06:14 PM
Hehe VS your a cute kid&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33; :thumbs:&nbsp; Damn.....if I were in the 6th grade&#33;&#33;&#33;
Are you flirting with me??

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 08:57 PM
Originally posted by Sepra+Mar 6 2003, 03:37 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Sepra @ Mar 6 2003, 03:37 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--VS BloodScream@Mar 5 2003, 06:40 PM
Hey Karol, this is Damien, I was the person you got mad at in 4th grade, and in 5th grade at Sandy Ridge Elementary, I wanted to explain something to you, if you could please call my number ***-****, I would be happy, a direct time to call if around 6 PM-10 PM, cause thats when I play games on the computer, and talk to friends.
What I was going to explain to you about is what happend in 4th grade, when you got mad at me.



Hows that sound anyone??
OK here&#39;s the opinion from that strange species called &#39;women&#39;...........


Go with this one. I agree that the second one is a little too foward. If you say as little as possible it might spark her curiosity a little more and she&#39;ll want to call you. The same thing goes if you ever get that phone call. Dont smother her right away she&#39;ll think your psyco. Apologize and just tell her it&#39;s been something that has been bothering you all this time. (she&#39;ll think that&#39;s sweet) Tell her you think she&#39;s really cool but like I said dont get too mushy right away. Just leave it at that. Talk to her like you would any other friend of yours and end the conversation ask if it&#39;s ok if you call her again.

Oh and take Herbus&#39;s advice........(that was incredible Herb)

I like what Boston Shocker said also. Try not to be to pushy. Take it slowly and be her friend first. :thumbs: Who know&#39;s after a few months of friendship...........she may like you as her b/f. [/b][/quote]
I have that letter wrote now, but I need to wait like a week, so, I am going the see if my friend could maybe give it to her, he may be nosey, but there isnt crap for his intrest.

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 09:27 PM
Hows a flower on the bottom of the paper??
Below what I wrote, like an flower drawn on paper.

Sepra
03-06-2003, 09:50 PM
Originally posted by VS BloodScream+Mar 6 2003, 03:03 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (VS BloodScream @ Mar 6 2003, 03:03 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--Sepra@Mar 6 2003, 06:14 PM
Hehe VS your a cute kid&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33; :thumbs:&nbsp; Damn.....if I were in the 6th grade&#33;&#33;&#33;
What, did you look at my pic?? [/b][/quote]
No I&#39;ve never seen your pic but you seem to have a nice personality and a great way of thinking. :thumbs:

Sepra
03-06-2003, 09:51 PM
Originally posted by VS BloodScream@Mar 6 2003, 04:27 PM
Hows a flower on the bottom of the paper??
Below what I wrote, like an flower drawn on paper.
:thumbs: Good Idea

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 10:26 PM
Oww, I stabbed my self with lead, that stung, I put a flower.
Hey, you said pretty muchly keep the letter short, whats that mean??

Sepra
03-06-2003, 10:38 PM
Dont go on and on about why you want her to call you.

Also dont tell her that you like her as a g/f in the lettter.

FlameRush
03-06-2003, 11:22 PM
I know.

FlameRush
03-07-2003, 02:40 AM
Well, I&#39;ll see in the next week.

FlameRush
03-07-2003, 06:35 AM
NVm, I had a pic of myself, but I looked to retarded in that one, the light made me look like a shovel mouth.

Mr Clean
03-07-2003, 04:46 PM
Make sure you post an update for us after you deliver the note.....the suspense is killing us all....

Sepra
03-07-2003, 04:53 PM
Originally posted by Mr Clean@Mar 7 2003, 11:46 AM
Make sure you post an update for us after you deliver the note.....the suspense is killing us all....
:thumbs: I&#39;m very curious as to the outcome also&#33;&#33; :thumbs:

FlameRush
03-07-2003, 11:27 PM
Ok, look at metalbarx&#39;s profile at Yahoo&#33;.
The light screwed up the look, I look 2 times better than that now.

FlameRush
03-09-2003, 12:10 AM
Smoothering her would be like saying a smaller truth, or is it like starting and saying the truth right away?
Should I start saying it slow, but a long truth??

Sepra
03-09-2003, 01:16 AM
Originally posted by VS BloodScream@Mar 8 2003, 07:10 PM
Smoothering her would be like saying the truth, saying a smaller truth, or is it like starting and saying the truth right away?
Should I start saying it slow, but a long truth??
No not long. Start simple. You could say something like you probably dont remember when you got mad at me that day on the playground when &#39;whatever his name is&#39; told you I wanted to kiss you. Well, I just wanted you to know that none of that is true. I always thought you were a cute girl but I would never say anything like that. I felt really bad when you said you hated me and its just something that&#39;s been bothering me. See what she sais and go from there. Dont get any mushier than this. She&#39;ll think your a freaky stalker or something. I would just talk to her as a friend from there and end the conversation with a &#39;would you mind if I called you sometime?&#39; Dont go into any long details or go over your every feeling for this girl. :thumbs:

FlameRush
03-09-2003, 05:34 AM
I will see in one, or two weeks, cause I gotta do a TEST to make my friend laugh, if I fail it, I will not be able to do that, so I get my next trusted friend, a fat 300lb boy(Hes cool), I dont care if hes fat, just ppl make friends.

FlameRush
03-12-2003, 03:31 AM
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